Thank you for the good thought and well wishes for my Dad. He finally went into surgery around 12:00 and was back in recovery by 1:40. Things went about as expected. He didn’t get back to his room until about 3:30 - and as of 7:00 p. m. he hadn’t gotten out of bed so he is not walking around. Mom said his pain level is about a 20 on a scale of 1 to 10. This is a man who doesn’t complain about pain. He just grits his teeth and bares it…. I told her to tell him to keep hitting his button, but he isn’t on IV pain meds. It’ all Oral…what a crock of shit.
Will be interesting as to when he gets to go home…. I doubt it will be first thing in the morning.
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Now for my rant….
My older sis L is a great person - but she is so FREAKIN’ CHEAP - Not Frugal - cheap! Normally I can deal with this - today she ticked me off. After she called last night to see about an extra TV we have around the house - (hers is broken, and wanted to know if I would give her my old one - which is fine I’ll give it to her) I made the comment that I needed hurry up and get off the phone so I could call Local Store and order a balloon bouquet with a Hugs and Kisses Candy weight for Dad from the kids. She tells me - she will take care of it - I tell her exactly what I had in mind - she assures me it will be ‘no problem’. So she goes to Wal-mart and buys 1 mylar balloon - 1! This is not what I had in mind, and I didn’t ask her to do it - she offered!
She doesn’t understand my disappointment - nor my disgust…and she is so proud because she only spent a buck! I’m sorry - but my Dad is worth more than a buck. And then when talking to Mom tonight I find out My other sister sent a ballon bouquet - from local store with Hugs and Kisses as the weight - which is what I wanted to do….and I think the sounds in my voice let Mom know that I was beyond pissed off at Sister L. UGH!




9:49 pm
There is a fine line between being a tightwad and a tightass. Being careful with your own purchases and trying to get the best value for the money is frugal. Not wanting to spend any money at all, especially on gifts and such, is just plain cheap.
Anyway, I’m glad your dad’s surgery is over and he’s on the road to recovery.
9:55 pm
I’m glad your dad’s surgery went well, I hope he isn’t in too much pain for long. Sorry about your sister and the balloon.
10:00 pm
what a crappy thing to do! we all have problems with family members i think… I know im havign sister issues latly!
im sad your dad is in pain, but hopefully he recovers super fast!
10:30 pm
L is beyond being a tightass.